Humans. By our nature and design, we reach out to find love. When love is reciprocal, it is wonderful. Unfortunately, being in-love can be a one-sided experience, discovered to be so ultimately and catastrophically when the other announces that they aren’t and won’t ever be in love with you.
After all the emotion-laden responses you have felt like shock, denial, disbelief, abandonment, confusion, anger, betrayal, horror, and deep sadness, you have to get about the business of Falling OUT of Love.
You might think you are different or special in your love response, but it turns out, humans all share a remarkably monotonous set of programmed responses that have to be fixed, corrected, before we can move on with our lives and leave the once loved-one behind. These corrections constitute a method. Yes, a method that works with humans. Like you. The method I refer to is the coalescence of many observations – by psychologists and regular people. And the method involves several elements that can be the focus of your days and nights, here, while in front of your computer screen, instead of obsessing about encouraging words, amazing moments, discussion of future sharing, intimate breaths, all the stuff that keeps you hanging on to a love that WILL NEVER BE.
Let’s get on; get on with life, today, now, instead of staying vapor-locked in a cloud of hope we alone concoct. Let’s get on…