You are hanging on to pictures, streams of text, app-exchanges, FB-friendships, Instagram followings. I KNOW THIS IS HARD! It’s hard because its intertwined with so much hope and belief in both the meaning of those words and pictures and the idea of a shared trajectory that YOU DISCUSSED! It is so hard to expunge those things but… you… must…
They will hold you captive to a future that just isn’t in the heart or mind of the other. Holding them is futile and paralyzes you from moving out of the grief and loss.
Just do it, please. You will be thankful (later) that you did…